Of course he can't always see it that way. He's earned his moody reputation, but his Norma Desmond-esque mood swings are actually quite natural, when you think about it. You see, Mr. Cancer is ruled by the moon, which changes signs approximately every two days And with each sign change, you will see a different side of the Cancer guy. He can be a morose drunk, a brilliant artist, a savvy workaholic businessman, a hot lover, a nagging mother, and more Sound scary? Actually, it's not. If you are around him long enough like, say, two months if you're very observant, and a lot more if you possess only average powers of perception , you will begin to see and understand the rhythm and mysterious but comforting predictability of his moods.
Of course, you may feel as if you are dealing with a pregnant woman whose hormones are out of whack, but f you have a few mother issues of your own you know he's got plenty , you should be rather turned on by the whole Cancer experience. Cancer's wacky moods may at times convince you that he's emotionally unstable or, to put it mildly, completely off his rocker. In reality, he is just moody.
But that doesn't mean he isn't incredibly steady and capable in his dealings outside the home. He is security-minded and probably has a nice, stable job. Even if he works in a traditionally unstable field such as entertainment or organized crime, he will still make his own regular and predictable routine. If you are dating him, you will see that he immediately gravitates toward rituals: watch on old Rock Hudson or Tony Perkins movie on Wednesday nights; have sex by candlelight in the bathtub at midnight on Fridays, etc.
He's sort of like an animal that way. He likes his rituals and he likes to possess the things and people he needs and desires. Yes, he's clingy, but most people crave such clinginess. When he's holding you in his arms late at night and reassuring you that everything will be all right, you will feel just like Monty Clift did when Liz Taylor looked into his eyes and said, "Tell, Mama," in A Place in the Sun. Yes, when the sun rises and the world is less scary, you may think, "I don't need this. I can do okay on my own," but even you will know that you're fooling yourself.
Everyone should experience the crazy romantic foolishness of a Cancer at least once in his life -- especially if you're a gay man and if you're not, why are you reading this book? Put it down and run screaming out of the room! And if you're lucky, you'll hold on to this howling-at-the-moon-crazy Cancer queen for life. In Life: Gay Leo men simply adore being Leos. They equate their Sun sign with grandeur, glamour, and gorgeousness.
And they are right. Leo men lead their lives with a certain pizzazz. They are all movie stars on the inside, and most of the show it by the way they accessorize on the outside. They're all incredibly vain, which can be annoying at times, but endearing, too. After all, they want to make the world a more beautiful place. And if they have to buy themselves expensive jewels or hairdos to do so, so be it. If it was good enough for their heroine, the late, lovely Jackie O, then it's good enough for them.
In their careers, they tend to gravitate in two directions: the arts or big business. If they are the business type, you can bet that they are either in charge or on their way to being in charge. These cats don't like to take orders from anyone. Leo can be surprisingly conservative in business. He knows how to work from within the system and is the ultimate insider like that famous gay America president Bill Clinton.
You knew he was gay, but did you know he was a Leo? Kisses to Hillary! He hates to rush, so he doesn't mind gradually working his way up to the top, but with his charisma, chances are he'll get there fast. If he's an artistic Leo, you won't find him slaving away alone in his garret. No, this boy needs attention and lots of it. He can't live without a constant high dosage of adoration. A compliment makes him come to life.
And if you adore his art, he knows that means you adore him. Of all the arts, acting is the one that he is the most gifted at. He is a natural performer and can rope in an audience with his divine sense of timing and people pleasing. Of course, even if he practices a craft that has nothing to do with the stage or screen, he will somehow manage to grab the limelight. See Warhol, Andy, another famous Leo. The Leo gay man also possesses a great integrity and honesty. He needs to live his life in a way that he deems moral and proper. That doesn't mean he has anything against prostitutes or drunks.
He has compassion and love for all. But at some point in his life, he will face himself and his own shortcomings and have to make some serious choices about how he wants to lead his life. He may be a materialistic whore, but he is an honest one. In Life: Virgo gay men are quirky and unique. It's hard to generalize about them because the substance of their souls are so different.
These boys, as a whole, though, tend to be sweet, gentle, and thoughtful, with a pronounced nervous streak. Virgo is a "feminine" sign as the other earth signs, and the water signs. This man doesn't have to wear a wig to know that he is just a soft, sensitive creature on the inside. Most of them emphasize some part of their personality or add something to their physical appearance to make them seem more manly, but it always seems just a little forced. Which isn't to say that he lacks true masculinity. He I just so evolved in his manhood that he is a little bit closer to the female experience than most men.
This is why he has so many biologically female girlfriends. Virgo prays to the God of work. He loves a project! And he loves to worry He is an odd combination of the earth influence and the air sign influence of Mercury Virgo's ruling planet. He sits on the fence between the physical world and the mental plane. These men are incredibly bright and sensitive. He's really more of an escapee from a Victorian novel than he lets on.
Even when they've been married for years, these guys still feel like humble spinsters on the inside. And humble he is. Some overcompensate, but all really believe they are "not worthy" of the grandiose things in life: you know, like love and happiness. He is quite adept at language and is apt to work in a field that allows him to use his mind and his strong critical abilities.
Virgo gay men also make good performers and editors details, darling! He must be happy in his work or he can't be happy in his life. He likes to feel a sense of purpose, and when he is appreciated by his boss and peers, he is at his best. The dear boy is hard on himself, and even when everyone tells him, "You're brilliant," and "Your work is incredible," he will still say, "Oh, no, it's terrible," and pick it apart in minute detail.
So you could imagine what he's like when he's working for someone who is never satisfied. He becomes a martyr and is absolutely no fun to be around. Virgo men are often typecast as "clean freaks," "workaholics," and "nuts. This man is prone to extremes. Always remember that his greatest asset and his biggest Achilles' heel is his critical prowess. He may criticize the feng shui of your apartment, your use of syntax, and your homemade pasta, but it is only because he wants to help. You've no doubt heard what a perfectionist he is, and it's true. He believes life is a process In Life: The Libra gay man is first and foremost a real charmer.
Ruled by beauty-loving Venus, he has a naturally gentle and calming way about him.
With Venus being the planet of love, he is a true romantic. Since he was a young boy, he has imagined his life to be a fairy tale He is full of dreams and whimsy, which he is extremely unlikely to express in words. In fact, many Libra men come across as quite practical, cerebral, and earthbound. Believe me, it's just an act. He had to butch up as a young man to compensate for his difference as a gay man, so the bullies wouldn't destroy him, and now as a grown-up he has become quite an impressive actor.
He wants more than anything to be swept off his feet by the love of his life, and to live a storybook existence, making art and leading the life of the mind, and a life of luxury. Yet if he reveals all that, it will make him incredibly vulnerable. That's why he puts up some cold, chilly walls But somehow his innocence and vulnerability shine through anyway, and they are his most wonderful traits. Libra is also a great lover or art and probably a talented artiste himself. He has a great sense of the aesthetic. If he's an evolved Libra man, you will see it in the way he decorates.
Even if he lives in a most humble abode, you can bet that the color scheme is subtly perfect and the lighting a dream come true. If he does not pursue an artistic career, chances are he will do something that uses his highly developed sense of logic. Libra is the sign that rules law, but what does that have to do with logic, really? Of course he would make a divine lawyer, judge, or journalist He's a funny paradox because on the one hand he is a true peace lover and diplomat Mahatma Gandhi was a Libra; Jimmy Carter, too , but he just loves to provoke heated arguments.
Then he sits back and watches the fur fly. He will never get blood on his hands, but he is often there on the scene of the crime when a big brouhaha is taking place. He's full of contradictions and his favorite hobby is switching ideas in the middle of an argument. He's so charming, though, that most times he gets away with it. In Life: Mr. So, so much. When I worked at an old bookstore one summer, I was given the metaphysical section to stock and curate.
This is so cool and so well put-together! A lot of it was really accurate, but I would not consider myself a social butterfly, and I absolutely hate going out to clubs. I would definitely rather stay in with my Cancer best friend and love watch Doctor Who rather than hate watch the L anything. Cause that would be kinda cool…. Poly relationship? I just thought of some bad pick-up lines based on me being a fire sign, for the other types of signs. I am even wearing a shirt similar to the woman in the cancer photo.
I did not know we were so generic.
I dated an Aquarius…it was an experience. I get confused with this cuspness. You know you do that shit too…. Some love for a Taurus here? I am a hopeless romantic. Totally agree on being comfortable too. I feel a little let down because astrological descriptions for Aries all tend to describe someone as hot-headed, competitive and aggressive… which I am not AT ALL.
In fact, Pieces and Taurus better describe my personality. On my 25th birthday, some friends threw me a party at our local gay bar. Regardless, since then whenever someone brings the Zodiac into a conversation, I think of that, her, and am pretty much turned off. Sooo, in the spirit of good fun, this Taurus girl is setting out to find her perfect Capricorn,.. Loving your work :o Feels like this was written with humour, empathy and the perfect balance between providing enough relevant info to be useful without going OTT..
Am just enjoying every day as it comes and not questioning or analysing it. I agree with the Pisces and cancer match, and the scorpio one also! But Scorpios always seem to want one thing hahaha. Remember these are only sun signs! So true! Fell for an Aquarius. God, her hands were gorgeous. Aries U-haul compatibility with an Aquarius? They will use all my things without asking and will be selfish with the space. And the Virgo thing is also wrong. Virgos love to fall for me. Anassa Kata!! Greetings from Israel. I just joined autostraddle.
I am known as OldLadyKlainer on tumblr. She goes to college. I am a retired chef and English teacher; currently I do clothing alterations at home. I crochet, knit, quilt, cook and read ferociously. I look forward to reading your columns in the future. So nice to meet you. Pisces with a Pisces. Especially the staring in the eyes bit. Yeah, do a LOT of that….
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Been dating almost a year and have yet to really argue. This is totally off. I love all fire signs actually…. Taken in combination with your sun signs, you may find that the parts you disagree with are right on the money with the Venus signs. The only way I can figure it is that personality-wise I must be some kind of mad combination of the two.
It is true that I need my personal space but I also crave so much my very active social life and have past experience of being absolutely miserable without it. Somehow combined within one person, I can only give a sardonic recognition giggle and come to the same conclusion. My gorgeous Pisces girlfriend of 2-years-and-counting however indeed seems a perfect fit for either, and is absolutely a perfect fit for me! Fellow Leo here…. Thanks for not making me stoop so low as to take advice aimed at straight men. OK so as a Scorpio sun and rising I believe that I totally relate to my sign in every aspect, but I do not fit with the zodiac match ups.
Anyway awesome post , thuroughly enjoyed reading through! It surprises me how much we have experienced in common. Am a Gemini and I hate how much truth these words speak.
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Ok, I totally agree with this on a surface level. Strictly going by sun signs. Your whole chart should be taken into consideration. My partner and I have more in common under the surface than our sun signs would have you believe. The trains collided, exploded into flames, and then they re-materialized and did it a few more times just to emphasize how wrong I was in thinking that could have ever worked. I believe in astrology. I am a cancer and no luck with aries! And aquarius…I think my moon is aries and Scorpio rising..
And where is that pic of you? This was pretty spot on! Me being a Sag, and my girlfriend being a Pisces, it was pretty accurate! This post is true in some cases but honestly, both of us love being with each other and all. She is bossy and rude sometimes ok, most of the times and I am always arguing. We met when I was 13 in school. I find that my Venus in Scorpio is so more important in my own chart regrading relationships, whereas my Sun ego in Libra is more applicable to my work and other projects.
Very informative and entertaining! Hi mates, how is all, and what you would like to say concerning this article, in my view its actually amazing in favor of me. So far, it has been a communication challenge because us Gems are more mental, so we seek that stimulation and communication is key. My Cap seems to appreciate life at this point in life so we enjoy each others presence as Gems like to be child-like at times. She was able to calm me and help me look through the situation. She stays on me as far as task, and I stay on her as far as goals and making sure she holds up to what she says she will do.
We also put in a lot of effort and compromise into making our relationship work which is most important aspect aside from communication. Any sun sign combo can work with these two things. This blog was… how do you say it? What you said about our pairing is pretty damn spot on, too! What may you suggest about your put up that you simply made a few days in the past? Any sure? Good read. Compatibility differs when it comes to friendship, sex and relationship. Some are spot on in your analysis here but if one is truly honest and have had lived expansively, one will agree that to each his own and that everyone is very different.
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Sex wise, I consistently find a few tried and tested signs that can seriously quench my hunger for immense satisfying pleasures; and some, I would never ever touch with a mile long pole even if they looked like a Greek god-dess! Good attitude is key. Sexiness with mutual respect is seductive and addictive. Using horoscopes to filter hookups-frens-partners may limit the sampling size, but I rather be sane, grounded, harmonious and alive than dragging closeted mental case residuals and debris along. Yes indeed there are exceptions to the rule in anything but sadly, way too far and in between for me to take the chance again and again.
Trust your own instincts when connecting with someone new or those who have yet to earn your trust.
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Observe, take notes, remember common patterns and always ask for their star signs. Trust me, they will be enamoured to know for themselves. Holy crap sensual excellence!!! Less talk more action. So good. But DANG is the physical part good. Spiritual and physical bliss. A Taurus with some water in their chart is a good choice.
I want to say a very big thanks and appreciation to Robinson. I pray God almighty give you the strength and wisdom to help more people having similar problem like mine. Do you want your ex lover back? Do you want to get pregnant? Do you want your husband to appreciate you? Do you want to be famous or rich? Do you want to be a celebrity? Do you your business to grow excessively? Do you want to be honorably good academically? Do you need a job? Do you need a husband? Do you have problem in your marriage life? Just in case, you know , you were wondering.
Related: astrology epic feature featured greatest hits how to be gay lesbian dating more like this queer horoscopes. Kate Full-time writer, part-time lover, freelancing in fancy cheese and cider. Kate has written articles for us. You May Also Like You need to login in order to like this post: click here I love this. Log in to Reply. You need to login in order to like this post: click here You are a witch. The Cancer one is my bio and also contains the bio of my relationship. Get outta my head. Also, everything written about Pisces is so true!
That is all. Thanks for sharing! You need to login in order to like this post: click here Yay for cusps! You need to login in order to like this post: click here Me too! You need to login in order to like this post: click here Me three! We are all extra super best lesbros with ourselves. April 19 here!! You need to login in order to like this post: click here but really, I am totally an aries, and my ex is totally a taurus, and it was not soul-crushingly beautiful and we are not lesbros forever.
You need to login in order to like this post: click here As another Aries April 15th, so not a cuspian who dated a Taurus, I had literally the exact same train of thought.
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You need to login in order to like this post: click here I tend to do the opposite. You need to login in order to like this post: click here I always have to laugh at these because I think I am probably the most introverted, least popular person that I know, but it is a nice little boost for the self-confidence. You need to login in order to like this post: click here I found the opposite! Myself included. You need to login in order to like this post: click here I never actually noticed before that the descriptions of Aries makes us seem like assholes.
Own it. Virgo takes an intellectual approach to life especially compared to the emotional Cancer , but still manages to be perceptive and intuitive enough to figure others out if they choose. Earth Signs, true to their name, are down-to-earth, but they can also be materialistic and preoccupied with acquisition. The Cancer-Virgo love partners like to surround themselves with comfortable, well-crafted things. Water Signs rely on feeling and intuition, making Cancer the emotive force behind this relationship, in a subtle Cancer way, of course.
Along with their desire for prosperity, their love of a fancy home life ensures that this couple will work hard toward this shared goal. While Cancer gets things going, Virgo thrives on a changing routine of responsibilities and challenges. Their dedication to working toward the same goals.
Both partners in this love match enjoy a stable home life and nice things, and Virgo truly enjoys helping Cancer along the way to achieving their goals. Their shared goals and desires make theirs a highly compatible love match.